Editor's note: Chris Kluwe is a punter for the Minnesota Vikings of the National Football League. He is an ambassador for Athlete Ally, an organization working to end homophobia in sports, as are Brendon Ayanbadejo of the Baltimore Ravens and Scott Fujita of the New Orleans Saints.
(CNN) -- "Don't be a distraction."
These words are pounded into every single NFL player's head from the day he enters the league until the day he leaves (and I would imagine it holds true for just about every professional sport).
The same message, over and over and over -- "The team comes first," "Sacrifice your personal goals to win," "Only be judged by what goes on between the lines" -- which is why I find it unsurprising that there are no openly gay athletes in any of the big four professional sports leagues in the U.S.: the NFL, NBA, NHL, and MLB.
Chris Kluwe The message is pushed on us so hard, in fact, that players run the very real risk of losing their jobs if the team deems them too much of a distraction, and unfortunately it seems gay players feel that being comfortable with who they are has to take second place to keeping their jobs.
This isn't right.
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In an exclusive interview with CNN, former San Francisco 49ers player Kwame Harris came out as gay after rumors circulated in the media. U.S. international soccer player Robbie Rogers, formerly of the Columbus Crew, announced that he was gay and retired in February. Gareth Thomas of Wales spoke about being gay to a British news channel in 2009. Justin Fashanu became the first openly gay soccer player in Europe when he came out in 1990. Eight years later, he took his own life. Tennis great Martina Navratilova came out in 1981. After his retirement in 2007, basketball player John Amaechi announced he was gay. After retiring from professional football in 1972, David Kopay acknowledged to the Washington Star that he was gay. Villanova University's Will Sheridan came out to his teammates in 2003. In 2012, U.S. women's soccer player Megan Rapinoe confirmed in Out magazine that she was a lesbian. Champion figure skater Johnny Weir confirmed in his 2011 memoir, "Welcome to My World," that he was gay. Australia's Matthew Mitcham came out in an interview with the Sydney Morning Herald in 2008. In 2012, Orlando Cruz became the first active professional fighter to publicly announce that he was gay. Editor's note: A previously published photo in this space erroneously identified a different person as Orlando Cruz. CNN apologizes for the error. Openly gay British dressage rider Carl Hester helped his team win gold at the 2012 Olympics. Cricketer Steven Davies, of Surrey in England, announced he was gay in 2011. Germany's openly gay Judith Arndt won the silver medal in cycling at the 2012 Olympics. Billy Bean, a former Major League Baseball player, discussed being gay in a 1999 New York Times article. Editor's note: A previously published photo in this space erroneously identified a different person as Billy Bean. CNN apologizes for the error. Tennis legend Billie Jean King was outed by a former female partner in 1981. In 2002, professional football player Esera Tuaolo came out on HBO's "Real Sports." French tennis player Amelie Mauresmo came out in 1999. Greg Louganis, who won four Olympic golds for the U.S. over his diving career, has been openly gay since 1995. Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Photos: Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes HIDE CAPTION << < 
U.S. international soccer player Robbie Rogers, formerly of the Columbus Crew, announced that he was gay and retired in February. 
Gareth Thomas of Wales spoke about being gay to a British news channel in 2009. 
Justin Fashanu became the first openly gay soccer player in Europe when he came out in 1990. Eight years later, he took his own life. 
Tennis great Martina Navratilova came out in 1981. 
After his retirement in 2007, basketball player John Amaechi announced he was gay. 
After retiring from professional football in 1972, David Kopay acknowledged to the Washington Star that he was gay. 
Villanova University's Will Sheridan came out to his teammates in 2003. 
In 2012, U.S. women's soccer player Megan Rapinoe confirmed in Out magazine that she was a lesbian. 
Champion figure skater Johnny Weir confirmed in his 2011 memoir, "Welcome to My World," that he was gay. 
Australia's Matthew Mitcham came out in an interview with the Sydney Morning Herald in 2008. 
In 2012, Orlando Cruz became the first active professional fighter to publicly announce that he was gay. Editor's note: A previously published photo in this space erroneously identified a different person as Orlando Cruz. CNN apologizes for the error. 
Openly gay British dressage rider Carl Hester helped his team win gold at the 2012 Olympics. 
Cricketer Steven Davies, of Surrey in England, announced he was gay in 2011. 
Germany's openly gay Judith Arndt won the silver medal in cycling at the 2012 Olympics. 
Billy Bean, a former Major League Baseball player, discussed being gay in a 1999 New York Times article. Editor's note: A previously published photo in this space erroneously identified a different person as Billy Bean. CNN apologizes for the error. 
Tennis legend Billie Jean King was outed by a former female partner in 1981. 
In 2002, professional football player Esera Tuaolo came out on HBO's "Real Sports." 
French tennis player Amelie Mauresmo came out in 1999. 
Greg Louganis, who won four Olympic golds for the U.S. over his diving career, has been openly gay since 1995. Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Photos: Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes Openly gay athletes HIDE CAPTION << < 
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20 > >> Photos: Openly gay athletes It's not right that professional sports, and especially the professional sports media, have created an environment where gay players are willing to hide essential components of themselves as human beings in order to pursue their dreams, in order to not be a distraction. It's not right that our insatiable lust for sports coverage creates an atmosphere where someone would willingly subordinate his life to a backward and bigoted worldview in order to stay employed.
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It's not right that we can't just accept someone for who he is.
Former NFL player comes out Why?
Why do people care so much about someone else's sexuality? Why do people give two s***s how someone else lives his life? Why do people have this absolutely idiotic notion that being gay has any sort of effect on how well a player can play football, or basketball, or baseball? Why the f*** do I even have to write this column for a major news organization to talk about something that shouldn't even remotely be a factor in sports?
Well, the reason is simple. I'm writing this because no gay player is currently out, and the first gay player who eventually does come out needs to know that -- despite all the indoctrination from the league about not being a distraction -- if he's the one to take the first step, he will have allies. He will have support. He will have those of us who realize that people's sexuality doesn't define who they are, just as their jobs don't define who they are, and that guys who bring our wives and children to games and team events are no different than those who would bring their husbands and children.
Most importantly, I'm writing this so that coaches, managers, players, owners and fans realize that the first gay player who comes out won't spontaneously cause rainbows to erupt out of everyone's rear.
Chris Kluwe, #5 of the Minnesota Vikings, punts the ball during a game against the San Francisco 49ers. In professional sports, the players on a team are a team. We eat together. We practice together. We watch film together, and we succeed or fail together. We see each other more than our own families during the season. To think that a gay player is suddenly going to destroy all that because he's out is asinine.
The idea that a gay player will be a distraction needs to change.
Coaches, administrative personnel -- will an openly gay player bring extra attention? Maybe, but guess what -- there's a whole bunch of other crap that happens during the season every year, anything from sexting to arrests to profane letters, and somehow we've managed to find a way through it each time without the entire edifice of football collapsing into ruin.
Become a fan of CNNOpinion Stay up to date on the latest opinion, analysis and conversations through social media. Join us at Facebook/CNNOpinion and follow us @CNNOpinion on Twitter. We welcome your ideas and comments.Instead of looking at an openly gay player as a distraction, ask yourselves -- how much better would that player play if he didn't have to worry about hiding a core part of who he is? How many more sacks would he have, free of that pressure? How many more receptions? How many more rushing yards?
Fans, media -- will an openly gay player be a distraction? Only if you make it one. Only if you insist on denying someone the freedom to live his own life on his own terms, instead of under someone else's control. Stop worrying about who a player dates; worry about his completion percentage, or tackles for loss, or return average. I can promise you, on Sundays the only thing he's worried about is lining up and doing his job to the best of his ability, or else he's going to be cut (just like any of us).
Players -- Those of you worried about a gay teammate checking out your ass in the shower, or hitting on you in the steam room, or bringing too much attention to the team -- I have four simple words for you. Grow the f*** up. This is our job, we are adults, so would you kindly act like one?
There are millions of people across America who work with gay co-workers every day, and they handle their business without riotous orgies consuming the work environment. In the extremely unlikely event that a gay player harasses you? We have an HR department. File a complaint, just the way a female employee would if you harassed her. If the media want to ask you about a gay teammate? He's a teammate, and you're focused on winning -- together. As a team.
And finally, to the gay player who does eventually come out, whoever that brave individual happens to be -- will you have to deal with media attention, with heightened scrutiny? Yes. Despite everything Brendon, Scott, myself, and all your other allies do, despite all the articles we write and interviews we give, despite the growing acceptance across this entire country, there are going to be people who insist on looking at you through the lens of your sexuality, and not at your skills as a football player. But you know what? All of us understand the truth.
You are a teammate, a friend, and you do not have to sacrifice who you are for the team to win, no matter what anyone else says.
You are not a distraction.
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